Nichole Marie
Emotional Intelligence Coach & Educator

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The Thorn That Stayed

Paul's Letters on Strength, Weakness, and the Emotional Wisdom of the Gospel

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Paul's letters speak into real churches and real relationships marked by weakness, grief, anger, conflict, pride, and fear. Some were written during imprisonment; others came from different seasons of his ministry. Their wisdom was never abstract — it was written for people learning how to live the gospel under real pressure.

This workbook walks through eight passages from five of his letters — four pages each: a verse to keep near, three Biblical Principles with the text beneath them, a reflection that names the skill underneath, and a page to carry it into the week. Self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, healthy boundaries, conflict repair — the wisdom was there centuries before we had names for it.

Read slowly. One chapter per sitting.

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38 pages of teaching, reflection & practical application

Take a peek inside: 38 pages of NIV-verified teaching and reflection

Eight chapters · eight letters

I

The Thorn That Stayed

2 Corinthians 12:7–10 — the prayer God didn't answer the way you asked.

II

Love Is Patient

1 Corinthians 13:4–7 — a manual for self-regulation, written centuries early.

III

Comfort That Multiplies

2 Corinthians 1:3–7 — comfort received, comfort passed on.

IV

Anger Without Sin

Ephesians 4:25–27, 31–32 — what to do with the heat.

V

Contentment in Any Circumstance

Philippians 4:11–13 — the verse behind the athletic gear.

VI

When Two Sisters Disagree

Philippians 4:2–9 — conflict repair between people who love each other.

VII

Carrying Each Other's Burdens

Galatians 6:1–5 — healthy boundaries and shared weight.

VIII

Forgive So Grief Doesn't Win

2 Corinthians 2:5–11 — restoration after someone wounds the whole body.

Inside the workbook, you'll work through

  • Eight passages from five of Paul's letters — 1 and 2 Corinthians, Galatians, Ephesians, Philippians.
  • Four pages per chapter: a verse to keep near, three Biblical Principles, a reflection, and a page to carry it forward.
  • The skill beneath each passage named plainly — self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, emotional release, healthy boundaries.
  • Personal notes from Nichole where the passage met her own life.
  • Three practices to live out each week, plus one honest question to sit with.
  • A starting-line page on the thorn in your own life, and a closing blessing for the road.

Not faith and emotional health as two separate tracks — one and the same wisdom, worn into the letters of a man who was working it out under real pressure, the same as we are. Print it, or fill it in on your tablet.

— Nichole

This workbook is educational and reflective; it is not therapy, clinical advice, or pastoral counseling. Digital product; all sales final.

Common Questions

Will this open on my iPad?

Yes. It opens right away in Apple Books or Files. To write in it, import the PDF into GoodNotes, Notability, or the free Xodo app and you can type or handwrite on every page.

Do I need a seminary background to follow it?

Not at all. Every chapter gives you the passage, plain-language context, and one honest question — no homework, no jargon. It's written to be sat with, not studied under a deadline.

Can I use this with my church group?

A personal copy covers one person. For small groups, classes, or ministries, a group license lets you print or share the complete workbook with your whole group — no per-copy fees.