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Nichole Marie
Emotional Intelligence Coach & Educator

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The Thorn That Stayed

Paul's Letters on Strength, Weakness, and the Emotional Wisdom of the Gospel

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Paul wrote most of his letters from prison, from exile, from the middle of conflict he didn't choose and couldn't always resolve. He wasn't writing theory — he was writing to real people who were angry, grieving, anxious, prideful, and afraid.

This workbook walks through eight of those moments — slowly enough to actually sit with them. Self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, healthy boundaries, conflict repair — the wisdom was there centuries before we had names for it.

Read slowly. One chapter per sitting.

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37 pages of guided, fillable pages

Take a peek inside: 37 pages of guided, fillable pages

Eight chapters · eight letters

I

The Thorn That Stayed

2 Corinthians 12:7–10 — the prayer God didn't answer the way you asked.

II

Love Is Patient

1 Corinthians 13:4–7 — a manual for self-regulation, written centuries early.

III

Comfort That Multiplies

2 Corinthians 1:3–7 — comfort received, comfort passed on.

IV

Anger Without Sin

Ephesians 4:25–27, 31–32 — what to do with the heat.

V

Contentment in Any Circumstance

Philippians 4:11–13 — the verse behind the athletic gear.

VI

When Two Sisters Disagree

Philippians 4:2–9 — conflict repair between people who love each other.

VII

Carrying Each Other's Burdens

Galatians 6:1–5 — healthy boundaries and shared weight.

VIII

Forgive So Grief Doesn't Win

2 Corinthians 2:5–11 — restoration after someone wounds the whole body.

Inside the workbook, you'll work through

  • Eight chapters through Paul's letters — one real situation per chapter.
  • Three Biblical Principles and the verses beneath them, every chapter.
  • A reflection and one honest closing question — not a study to rush.
  • A practice to carry into the week, and a closing line to keep where you'll see it.
  • Self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, and healthy boundaries — named where Paul lived them.
  • A starting-line page: the thorn in your own life right now.

Not faith and emotional health as two separate tracks — one and the same wisdom, worn into the letters of a man who was working it out under real pressure, the same as we are. Print it, or fill it in on your tablet.

— Nichole

This workbook is educational and reflective; it is not therapy, clinical advice, or pastoral counseling. Digital product; all sales final.

Common Questions

Will this open on my iPad?

Yes. It opens right away in Apple Books or Files. To write in it, import the PDF into GoodNotes, Notability, or the free Xodo app and you can type or handwrite on every page.

Do I need a seminary background to follow it?

Not at all. Every chapter gives you the passage, plain-language context, and one honest question — no homework, no jargon. It's written to be sat with, not studied under a deadline.

Can I use this with my church group?

A personal copy covers one person. For small groups, classes, or ministries, a group license lets you print or share the complete workbook with your whole group — no per-copy fees.